
Porch Life
Visible across the way from our house are two homes that cause a lot of discussion when my husband and I take the dog for a walk. Since we moved into our neighborhood, we’ve passed these two homes countless times; they are part of our daily scenery.
The one house is what you’d call a farmhouse style: it looms large with lots of sunny windows. It’s a newer construction boasting all the amenities, conveniences, and 21st century square footage coupled with old fashioned curb appeal. The best thing about this house, to me, is the lovely wraparound porch. Hanging between the porch posts are lush, green plants in baskets. Those plants are never dried up or wilted! The porch has wicker furniture with luxurious cushions and throw pillows. If there was ever a place to flop down on a warm afternoon into a soft, fluffy cushion on a wicker chair and fan yourself with your wide-brimmed hat while saying, “I do declare, what I wouldn’t give for some Sweet Tea right at this moment!” it is on that porch.
Never — not once! — have I seen anyone sitting on that porch!
Beside the Sweet Tea house is a 50s ranch, utilitarian, small in size, but neat as a pin. The owners, let’s call them Tony and Flo, keep the sidewalk swept, the grass mowed, and the shrubs well-manicured.
Tony and Flo don’t have a porch. They barely have a stoop. From their house, they could practically reach out and touch the Sweet Tea porch, but they’re probably too polite. Instead, Tony and Flo get two lawn chairs from their garage, set them up on their asphalt driveway, and sit, happy as clams, living their best porch life on a makeshift, asphalt driveway. They always wave to me when I’m out walking the dog, and I often see them talking with neighbors passing by. They look positively serene out there.
How can a Sweet Tea porch sit empty, while a slab of asphalt can provide so much contentment and community?
I suspect Tony and Flo learned an important truth: It’s not about chasing after the bigger, better stuff. It’s about having just what you need, then taking time often to slow down and celebrate and feel gratitude for what you already have.
Fall doles out warm days and cool nights with more reserve than summer. Each unseasonably warm day quivers with the knowledge that it could be the last one, blown away with the falling leaves. Find your porch, whether you have a Sweet Tea spot or just a patch of grass or asphalt big enough for a chair. Have a seat, look around, smile at your neighbors, and tell yourself, “Aren’t I lucky?”
